The decision to return to school and further my education has been one of great adjustment and reflection. My biggest factor in returning to school was strictly for self-preservation.
I have been a stay-at-home mom for over 20 years. Other than some occasional substitute teaching and modeling, I haven’t spent a lot of time in the workforce.
As my children got older, I wanted—well needed—something for myself. I felt as if I had lost the girl that yearned to learn more—do more and be more. I want this girl back because she is fearless, determined, and has so much left to offer.
The more I spoke with my friends and family, the more they encouraged me to chase my goal of going back to school. So, I did it…
Things are so much different than they were almost 30 years ago. While some things are deemed easier, others are more complicated. The drastic difference in technology compared to when I was originally learning English is a main factor of my stress. For example, as someone who learned to type on a typewriter, MLA and APA formatting overwhelms me. I learned on some of the first computers, those big boxy ones that made the loud, funny noise when turned on.
Another adjustment I’m currently making is learning alongside other students younger than me. I love young people and their energy. It is this enthusiasm that inspires and encourages me.
And I also know that I’m inspiring them, by being able to share learned lessons from my own life. I’ve been taught that obstacles are always going to show up and how you deal with those builds strength of character. Setbacks are temporary, and life is short. So, we should make the most of it.
The worst part of being back in school is the homework. It is definitely a pain. I find myself overwhelmed by it sometimes, and I am a procrastinator. Just ask my husband. It drives him nuts.
Time management is something else I’m working on. Most of us students are. There should be a separate class on this topic alone.
Don’t even get me started on online classes. Unfortunately, I don’t have the time to take all in-person courses. I prefer the face-to-face setting. Online classes are a challenge for me.
At the end of the day, I’m happy that I chose this path, and I look forward to seeing all that this journey brings.